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Can we use this as a spring board to talk about access issues in higher ed? http://www.xojane.com/issues/professor-geoffrey-miller

I HATE HATE HATE people who assume that being fat is a lack of  ”self control”. 

What’s that awesome quote? The one about how fat people MUST have awesome self control because they haven’t punched fat haters in the face?

Oh, but thin privilege doesn’t fucking exist, doe???
AT LEAST YOU AREN’T BEING FUCKING DENIED EDUCATIONAL OPPORTUNITIES BASED ON YOUR WEIGHT
AND THIS ISN’T THE FIRST FUCKING TIME.

Not even just an education getting a PhD is getting a career. There really isn’t any other way to do research and teach at the University level without getting a PhD first. 

Am I the only one mildly troubled by so many comments on this (wonderful!) article being in the vein of “I’m fat and I have 12 PhDs and I work with orphans and puppies and I run marathons every weekend SO DON’T THINK I’M LAZY!” ???
Because, honestly, I’m a fat person hoping to get advanced degrees, but I can only attend classes part time, and I can only work part time, and I can’t commit to volunteer jobs, and I can’t even run. I have disabilities which make the basic things in life difficult, but that does not lessen my passion for things. Sure, it’s taking me 6 years to get my Bachelors, and it will probably take me a while to get my Masters as well, but I don’t think that my size OR my lack of “doing things” should disqualify me.
I understand where people are coming from, and I recognize the need for showing how fat people can be really active, hard-working people…but the fact that this is usually the first response to any sort of accusation of the contrary is not very helpful to people like me who AREN’T super active and DON’T get a lot done.
Even if the fat person applying for the PhD program is fat ONLY because they “lack the willpower” to stop eating carbs (let’s say that somehow excess carbs are the only thing keeping them fat, and not genetics or any other factors), that says absolutely zilch about they’re ability to do their PhD. I’d rather the conversation was about that. In defense of the doctoral fatty on a mountain of Twinkies. In defense of the PhD candidate who would rather spend her evenings in the library than the gym. Who would rather eat what she fucking wants without having to apologize for her existence.

THIS so much. I don’t normally read the comments on xojane but I fucking hate when those are the only comments. I know when I was dealing with horrible anxiety during the fall semester and I was speaking to a Professor about what was going on since I didn’t do to well on our first exam. Since he knew I was applying to grad school he literally told me that I better not get sick in grad school, like having to deal with depression and anxiety (or really any disability) isn’t acceptable.
Everyone needs to set their own pace and needing to prove that you can meet a professor’s or anyone else’s unreasonable expectations is crap.
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therotund:

Can we use this as a spring board to talk about access issues in higher ed? http://www.xojane.com/issues/professor-geoffrey-miller

I HATE HATE HATE people who assume that being fat is a lack of  ”self control”. 

What’s that awesome quote? The one about how fat people MUST have awesome self control because they haven’t punched fat haters in the face?

Oh, but thin privilege doesn’t fucking exist, doe???

AT LEAST YOU AREN’T BEING FUCKING DENIED EDUCATIONAL OPPORTUNITIES BASED ON YOUR WEIGHT

AND THIS ISN’T THE FIRST FUCKING TIME.

Not even just an education getting a PhD is getting a career. There really isn’t any other way to do research and teach at the University level without getting a PhD first. 

Am I the only one mildly troubled by so many comments on this (wonderful!) article being in the vein of “I’m fat and I have 12 PhDs and I work with orphans and puppies and I run marathons every weekend SO DON’T THINK I’M LAZY!” ???

Because, honestly, I’m a fat person hoping to get advanced degrees, but I can only attend classes part time, and I can only work part time, and I can’t commit to volunteer jobs, and I can’t even run. I have disabilities which make the basic things in life difficult, but that does not lessen my passion for things. Sure, it’s taking me 6 years to get my Bachelors, and it will probably take me a while to get my Masters as well, but I don’t think that my size OR my lack of “doing things” should disqualify me.

I understand where people are coming from, and I recognize the need for showing how fat people can be really active, hard-working people…but the fact that this is usually the first response to any sort of accusation of the contrary is not very helpful to people like me who AREN’T super active and DON’T get a lot done.

Even if the fat person applying for the PhD program is fat ONLY because they “lack the willpower” to stop eating carbs (let’s say that somehow excess carbs are the only thing keeping them fat, and not genetics or any other factors), that says absolutely zilch about they’re ability to do their PhD. I’d rather the conversation was about that. In defense of the doctoral fatty on a mountain of Twinkies. In defense of the PhD candidate who would rather spend her evenings in the library than the gym. Who would rather eat what she fucking wants without having to apologize for her existence.

THIS so much. I don’t normally read the comments on xojane but I fucking hate when those are the only comments. I know when I was dealing with horrible anxiety during the fall semester and I was speaking to a Professor about what was going on since I didn’t do to well on our first exam. Since he knew I was applying to grad school he literally told me that I better not get sick in grad school, like having to deal with depression and anxiety (or really any disability) isn’t acceptable.

Everyone needs to set their own pace and needing to prove that you can meet a professor’s or anyone else’s unreasonable expectations is crap.

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Plus-Sized Mannequin Offends Some

Department store mannequins with plus-sized curves have had quite an oversized reaction in the blogosphere. When a user of the online forum Reddit posted a photo of a big boned display model under the heading “Anyone else horrified that they make obese mannequins too now?” it received hundreds of comments and thousands of “up” votes.

“Obese people being sold clothes?” said one typical post in favor of the mannequins. “That’s just treating them like people.”

“OMG, it’s about time! I’ve always hated seeing the size I have to get displayed on a much smaller model, then trying it on to see that it looks completely different on me,” read another supportive comment.

And another said in defense of the mannequin: “It’s not fat, it’s just big foamed.”

Not everyone on the site agreed that bigger is better.

“I just fear that obese will become the new normal as we try to be politically correct about it. Being obese is not the same as being black/gay/whatever,” one commented.

Another wrote, “The problem is that most people who are fat take any medically accepted way of reducing their weight as ridicule. They then attempt to dissemble said fact and prove to you how they are a special case and that you are really being judgmental for assuming that it’s the doughnuts they are chugging that are making them fat. Sorry, I’m done with the fat people sympathy wagon.”

The online debate reflects a real-world conflict. Nearly 70 percent of Americans now fall into the overweight or obese category, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The average American woman is a size 14. Yet in a sort of reverse vanity sizing, the typical store mannequin remains a svelte size 4 or 6.

Ed Gribbin, president of a mannequin manufacturing company, Alvanon, said he thinks he knows why.

“There is an ingrained mentality of merchants that clothing in smaller sizes looks more appealing — it’s also why runway models are so small. They believe there is an aesthetic appeal that is violated by using larger sizes in their displays,” he said.

According to Jennifer Thomas, a body image expert and assistant professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School, retailers may be right in hesitating before they upsize their displays.

“Walking into a store and seeing nice clothes on a mannequin that has a body type similar to your own could be a huge boost for self-esteem, but it might also backfire,” she said. “A lot of fashion is aspirational, such that people hope they will look like the mannequin if they buy the clothes. In our society, most people would rather be thin than obese.”

According to Gribbin, some retailers are beginning to fatten up their floor models in response to consumer feedback.

“They certainly don’t want to be seen as passing judgment on anyone and plus sizes are now the majority of sales for many,” he said.

Besides the unnamed store in the Reddit post, J.C. Penney quietly introduced more amply proportioned models in its stores in 2009 and TV retailer QVC has been using Alvanon’s size 18 and 20 mannequins to hawk clothing on air for the past six years.

Gribbin estimates the mannequin in the Reddit post would wear a plus size 24-26. That’s probably larger than most retailers would be willing to display.

Either way, most Reddit users do seem to agree the model is creepy — and it would seriously benefit from having a larger head, less sausage-like fingers and more realistic proportions.

As one commenter put it, “It’s like the person who made this has never seen a fat person before.”

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Photographer: Maxim Vakhovskiy
Black Venus, Vol. 1: http://blackvenusproject.com/book
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Photographer: Maxim Vakhovskiy

Black Venus, Vol. 1: http://blackvenusproject.com/book

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Cakes have gotten a bad rap. People equate virtue with turning down dessert. There is always one person at the table who holds up her hand when I serve the cake. No, really, I couldn’t she says, and then gives her flat stomach a conspiratorial little pat. Everyone who is pressing a fork into that first tender layer looks at the person who declined the plate, and they all think, That person is better than I am. That person has discipline. But that isn’t a person with discipline; that is a person who has completely lost touch with joy. A slice of cake never made anybody fat. You don’t eat the whole cake. You don’t eat a cake every day of your life. You take the cake when it is offered because the cake is delicious. You have a slice of cake and what it reminds you of is someplace that’s safe, uncomplicated, without stress. A cake is a party, a birthday, a wedding. A cake is what’s served on the happiest days of your life. This is a story of how my life was saved by cake, so, of course, if sides are to be taken, I will always take the side of cake.

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This is exactly my take on nutrition.

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I love this quote so much I want to frame it to hang in my kitchen.

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I’m pretty sure this is my new life philosophy.

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Cake 5ever. Once I find a nearby bakery, I’m gettin some caramel cake asap.

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swim suits don’t scare me:)
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swim suits don’t scare me:)

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